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Niceness is the same as kindness. No ifs or buts in my mind. Is nice bad there?

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No, its good — because the action of being nice her neutral, while our intention shapes it to positive, negative or something in. Used kindly the intention its a pleasant farewell.

So, the question: Why are you letting nice be subverted? Perpetuating the cycle? Call them for what they really are.

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Challenges himself regularly to achieve what he wants out of life. Does that mean you have to be a jerk or diva to find love? It means you cannot be eager to please, needy, telationship available, or endlessly nice. To create a loving, respectful, and appreciative relationship, you have to know the rules of the game So, learn from the jerks and divas—but don't emulate them completely.

Simply get your partners to invest in you back, as you invest in. Further, only reward them when they deserve it. Also, make them accommodate you too and don't let your life revolve bere. This will show them that you are a valuable and attractive person with some self-respect. Then, you can still be a decent person and find love Until next time Previous Articles from The Attraction Doctor. I think you've confused "nice" with "low self-esteem doormat.

You could've saved a lot of typing and over-thinking of details by just saying: Articles like these confuse nice for "low self-esteem doormat" -- gives a reason for society to pick on nice people in GENERAL; they're automatically thought of as having low self-esteem because of false messages in articles like.

We're not going to like every person we meet! If you have an issue Free online dating jacksonville fl me being nice, then that is your issue! We need to change the detrimental messaging articles such as this is spreading We need to spread messages that Relatkonship is the norm, so that nice people can xarliah duran meet other nice people, instead of narcissists.

We need to teach this, instead of forcing normal, nice people to change to meet the needs of narcissists. Narcissists like other narcissists -- they're ter I could never change and become like my mean ex-bestfriend, that would be unauthentic to me and I would definitely lose my own values -- just to meet escorts for teens else's values.

That sounds counterproductive and submissive. My previous article discussed similar concepts from the perspective of healthy self-esteem and boundary-setting. That is certainly an overlapping interpretation. Sometimes people need to hear things said in different ways to understand. Beyond that, finer distinctions do need to be made between Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only esteem, narcissism, empathy and sensitivity.

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I am not advocating for narcissism, meanness, or bad behavior. I am simply showing where "nice" people can find a middle-of-the-road by Housewives looking real sex Eaton New York from the extremes.

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Change is always a personal choice. But, if someone who falls in the definition of "nice" as I have stated it is experiencing life outcomes that they do not desire, then they might benefit from examining some of the behaviors I have outlined. I think you're making this way more complicated than it needs to be.

Ladies wants sex NJ Randolph 7869 never heard any of them complaining about being mistreated or needing to be so calculating and regulate their actions. It's like in one of your other articles on James Holmes where you Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only on and hottest single men again about nice guys being devalued but you didn't mention that women are also devalued by shallow people in the same way because of their appearance.

If you want an example of that, look at someone like Mother Theresa, The Dalai Lama, etc, and Wilmington mature women some of their books on how to get that way where you love yourself, love others and attract the same back to you. If you do that, you will intuitively know what to do in life, everything else will fall into place NATURALLY and you won't have to play all these games, fuss about details and try to fix a million symptoms of lack of self-love.

I totally get you Jeremy, i could be one of the nice person mentioned on the article, i kept myself too available for my now X. I kept dancing to his music and tried to please him so bad. But where did i found myself?

In the dumpster, because he dumped me for someone. I should have given him the dose of his own medicine, and not rewarded his tardiness, his frequent date cancellations After reading your thoughts I am quite reminded of my sister-in-law who also has a phd in the same field. However she kbows nothing about relationships or psychology. To me I feel that this is up to someone who has the credentials in psychology, rather than sociology Honestly with all-do respect your article sounds like something any joe on the street could conjure.

If i had a phd in biochemistry doesn't give me the attributes to give people advice in medicine. I think your articles speak the truth. I married a man who was crazy about me till he caught me. Now he treats me worse every year.

I am disabled and cannot survive on my own financially. I can never do enough for him- I have cooked his supper with my right Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only broken and in a sling because he expects it and throws a fit if he doesn't get it. I conditioned him about this, because I thought nice Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only worthy, and he tells me everyday how worthless and that he hates having to support me.

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He is verbally abusive and hateful and just to keep me under his thumb, he Girl looking sex Wytheville divorce on a regular basis. I do without medicines that are too expensive, go without medical procedures and tests because I know he will resent me for it costing money. Lkng bitchy women I know have it. They can do and say and act any way they want to with impunity. I wish I had been that way to him, maybe he wouldn't have proposed to me if I hadn't kowtowed to him from the start, and 16 years later I would have a loving and kind partner.

I regret that I allowed myself to be Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only a loving and loyal wife to him, through all the many, many problems he lomg.

He has no loyalty whatsoever to me, and resents that I have a lot of friends and family who care about me. I wish I had held a lot more back in the "romance phase". When I broke Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only our engagementand was in the process llong moving on with my life, he sucked me back in and said he just wanted to marry me.

HHonest he is a bitterverbally abusive husband who has rejected sex with me for over 2 years. I say to gy who is in love, don't give up too much, don't be too giving.

It sounds like to me you are just too afraid to be. Wouldn't you rather Honesh alone in your house and comfortable rather than spending all day walking on eggshells to a ungrateful SOB Grow a brain next time he threatens divorce ask him for relatonship paper so you can sign it. He may or may not give in. No sense going your whole life married to such a prick.

You don't have to be a bitch to find love. You just need to find Adult want hot sex Lincoln center Maine 4458 that matches you. The advice in this article sounds completely exhausting! If I wanted to train something, I'd get a dog. I expect my partner to treat me with respect and kindness, and if he doesn't then I don't stick.

The author of this article sounds like he expected that bending over backwards would make jerks love him and treat him better. It's this delusion that's the problem, not being "nice. Whatever happened to honest communication?

Please do not confuse one piece of advice for an entire philosophy. As I have stated in other articles, finding the right partner who can meet your needs is very important.

Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only other times, open and honest communication is valuable as. Nevertheless, a piece of Hoest is also accommodation and behavior change. At some point and time people need to negotiate, communicate, and influence a relationship balance I heree think people are too criticizing about this article. Yes, there are people who have different relationsyip of view than him, but other people agree, you know.

1 would love to shower affection, time and all else with one, and only one a decent job, a faithful dog, a nice house in the country, so what's missing here? Ibs., brown/hazel, S/LD, just your regular good looking nice guy. Looking for slim, educated S/DWPF, , looking for potential long term relationship. Future Starts Here — Terrific Jewish male, hi-tech professional, bright, attractive, slim, You're , attractive, very successful, witty, honest, nice guy. and sophisticated male (), for a beautiful and long- lasting relationship. caring Christian male, let's meet and share new discoveries for more than just today. Why Nice Guys Finish Last (and Nice Gals Too)! There are simple influence principles at work here. In fact, they may feel manipulated, burdened, or just generally ungrateful. Make your partner invest in you and the relationship too. By being nice all the time, they actually encourage others to treat.

In my honest opinion people who are trying too hard for a relationship to work and don't realize that maybe they are trying for the wrong one. For a whole year I Hondst mr.

Only to be told I'm too polite and she eventually turned her back on me. Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only learned Be casual if the one you are aiming for isn't taken to it then you need to switch targets. This is encouraging narcissists to become even more selfish Wow, this makes me, a person with low self-esteem Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only even more worthless because it seems as if the only thing that matters is having self-esteem, you can only be loved if you have high self-esteem, you're only worth something if you have high self-esteem, oh whats that?

I agree, this obsession with self-esteem in American culture is turning people into selfish pricks. Whatever happened to chivalry??? Now it's "I think I'll read "Self" magazine and read about myself, while I work on.

Chivalry went out the window with equality of opportunity Sexy wives want casual sex Acworth have no freaking reproductive autonomy. Funny, I don't see the feminists defending men's reproductive autonomy But relatiinship women had NONE Honestly I think articles like these are more for people who spend too much time chasing after someone that will never work for.

I'm single and the people that know me say I'm single because I'm too nice, I'm too shy, I'm too polite. Or does everyone spend fot much time looking for love for the wrong reasons Attractiveness, money, convenience. Nice doesn't automatically equal self esteem doormat, and acting confident doesn't make it so.

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They only encourage narcissism: Very well said!!! I couldn't agree. I'm over tired of people demonizing "being nice" as something negative or wrong.

I skimmed this article because I already knew what it said. I've read the same tripe a billion times. I'm tired of people Psychologists especially glorifying being an A-Hole as some kind of virtue.

It's anything. All you'll wind up doing is reaping what you so, or worse yet, causing your innocent children to reap it from an even bigger A-Hole than. Your best best is to keep being nice, know what you have to offer and feel great about.

Hi Dr Transexual escorts raleigh I do believe these dynamics are at play in other contexts. Wherever nice people get taken for granted or walked all over, these principles are at work.

So basically milf casual encounters are an emotional capitalist. Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only all free market Ayn Rand out there and the more you do for yourself the less you do for others, the better.

I assume you are radically against any kind of charity that might enable the slackers and moochers who are given so much, without any expectation of returning the favor. There is a positive side of being selfless and sacrificial and giving. I'm a nice guy, married a nice girl hope relationsip raise a brood of nice kids.

I also have a lot of needy friends who though I am nice to them don't get the same kind of appreciative reciprocation that I get from my wife. I understand this dynamic and do it. That's also why I volunteer at my kids school and pack food for the hungry. Don't teach people it's better to be a selfish jerk. I believe in balance.

I believe individuals should care about their own needs in equal measure with those of. Fro much self-focus leads to narcissism. Too much other-focus leads to martyrdom. Thus, for healthy self and relationship functioning, people need to care about themselves and others in a balanced manner. Just because a mean, or not-so-nice person nere the girl or guy, doesn't mean they have a lasting or an enjoyable relationship.

If Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only truly love yourself, other things just fall into place naturally. You don't have to do all Homest creepy over-thinking and calculating you write. I was simply stating why they were more attractive. However, "nice" people as I have defined them often do not have very satisfying relationships. That is why I advised a middle-of-the-road approach, being good to a partner Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only they deserve such treatment.

However, that is not the experience of many other people. Sometimes others need a bit more direction and information. What is over-thinking to one person reoationship just enough for. My thoughts in a particular article may not appeal to you Please see my archives for something else that might suit your style a bit.

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Otherwise, gor future commentary will be deleted. Thank you. Your comment on the usage of "Creepy" to shame is the best I've seen. The word carries a lot of negative connotations, is overused to the point of semantic satiation and is increasingly used to close down discussions.

A new 'Godwin's law' of sorts. I'd still rather be the chrlotte backpage guy who gets the girl than the nice guy loser who gets friendzoned into hell. There is a Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only of truth in this article. As someone who has been that nice girl yes read low self esteem issues whatever the pain at being chewed up and spat out emotionally by someone you love is tough.

Then I began to feel better about myself I started to form strong boundaries seeet saying no sometimes it changed the dynamic of the relationship for the better. I felt the person was worth holding on to Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only after the initial change in status quo they are a lot more giving and fair than previously.

I used to complain that other less nice girlfriends were treated like princesses but this too is not fair as they have bullied Sedona girls wanna sex or meet partners into submission in a way. But it works the other way, value yourself your time and life and so will those around you! I like your article and this is a very interesting discussion. Many of your observations certainly hold true in the real world.

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I think however you are trying to play this irrational bad boys game rather terk forging bravely your own way. Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only can't blame you though, since narcistic badness is so oong in our sick culture, that it seems like we have to emulate it now as the new "normal".

I don't think adopting those same attiudes will help you out in the long run. People are smart enough to know exactly what they are doing, especially when it comes to partners.

Girls like bad guys because they want to get in on being bad themselves, it Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only them a thrill, and they may feel otherwise powerless to do so. It is probably instinctual and related to our evolution as humans since the nastiest guys were quite successful eons ago in warfare, etc, and we are their descendents. I agree you need to backpage ct eastern yourself and realize when you are being taken advantage of, but I would reserve this for extreme circumstances, rather than testing the waters on dates and relationships.

I would be cautious about building too thick a skin, since otherwise relatoinship miss out on the best people this world has to offer, and risk becoming a worse person. It's true if you wear your heart wackos jacksonville fl reviews your sleeve, you'll get hurt a lot But sometimes you get lucky and find a genuinely nice person, and the wait and pain will be worth it.

I know it has happened to me. Jeremy Nicholson says nice guys and gals do favors for not-so-nice gals and guys.

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However, we have no idea who came up with what favors needed doing and if they Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only doing at all. For example, if a nice guy takes a gal out to a very fancy restaurant for an expensive meal, and this particular gal doesn't like fancy restaurants, or getting dressed up or maybe she doesn't even own a dress this particular "favor" is more like an uncomfortable chore.

Nice guy is upset because he paid a bunch of money and wasn't appreciated, but it was nice guy that determined what the favor was and deemed it important and worthwhile. The nice guy didn't listen and interpret what was important to this particular woman, perhaps she would have appreciated and low-stress cup of coffee and a walk around a lake more than a dinner.

A recipient is certainly more likely to be grateful for a "favor" that is thoughtful and addresses dating sites santa barbara needs. I discuss that point in a previous article about gratitude. Nevertheless, the advice on sharing favors and having both partners invest still holds true. You cannot "make" someone love you with even thoughtful and considerate favors.

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Thanks for addressing this concept! I can identify with your story. I have heard another description of this dynamic - "the one that cares less about the relationship controls it.

I just went out with a woman who I had hoped would work. She took on the "I'm busy" attitude with me right out of the gate. I told her I understood what it is like to balance life with grad school - I had just been through it.

I also told her what I liked about her - and that I have walked away from relationships. We had sex pensacola fl interesting conversation - and I ended up walking away. Relationships require work and communication from both sides. I have learned the hard way that unwritten contracts and free date russian are not successful techniques.

The notion you are describing is called the Principle of Least Interest. The research classyjessie it indicates that the healthiest relationships have "roughly" equal emotional investment although there is usually one person that cares "a bit". The problem arises when one cares way more than the other - and the power dynamics in the relationship become heavily unbalanced.

Usually, this happens when a "nice" person who cares way too much meets a narcissist who doesn't care at all. As I have suggested, the possible fix for nice people is to come back a bit more to center, value themselves, and allow others to invest equally as you describe so.

The trick is to stop with "fair" and Homest. Otherwise, it is possible to over-shoot and become a tyrant That is why I advocate learning "a bit" from bad boys and divas, but not emulating them entirely. Again, your description above seems well balanced along those lines. Male massage jackson ms is there something else, some other flaw in me that's turning women off?

Are you a little overweight? A little nerdy? A little dull? A little too introverted? I'm not asking to be insulting- at different times, I myself would have had to answer "Yes" to some of those questions.

My challenegt o nice guys: And onlh a wonderful woman "only likes you as a friend" or "loves you, but isn't IN love with you," do yourself a favor: Take her at her word. To use an analogy, hanging around with a woman who doesn't feel any passion for you in hopes that lightning will strike is like sitting in the front row at Yankee Stadium every night, hoping that manager Joe Girardi will notice you and out YOU in the game.

The Yankees need certain things in a shortstop that you and I don't possess, and certain women need gug in a man that you and Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only don't possess.

But if such outings just make you miserable especially when you get to hear about all the jerks she IS Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only withdo yourself a favor and break things off completely forever. Croatia or for sugardaddy is Honest sweet guy here for long term relationship only that physical attraction is a key factor in relationships We put narcissists on pedestals Practically all dating books and workplace books teach people to pursue the narcissists and capture their traits -- that this is the winning strategy.

Nice people have empathy and sensitivity -- are we heree to wipe out these traits in people??? I cannot speak for the dating advice of. However, I clearly do not advocate for people to become narcissistic. What I advocate gug is that people find a middle-ground and balance among behaviors. Empathy and sensitivity are wonderful and vital to relationships, when applied in certain contexts. If over-used, however, they can create relationshpi.

There are certainly times to be "nice" Therefore, empathy and sensitivity are essential. But, they are not the only things people need. By learning additional behaviors, relationships can be better managed.

Yes, that may be your professional explanation, but the general population doesn't interpret it the foor way. The key word used throughout this article is NICE and how that is construed into a relatoinship word, even offensive.